Dear self:
I’d like to apologize. I pushed you around, called you ugly, told you, you weren’t good enough, lied to you & said you were alone in the world, even though you AREN’T. I fed you disgustingly and then acted like it was your fault and not mine. I lead you around in search of things I should have been giving to you. I put you on display in ways you weren’t prepared for & expected too much from you, but didn’t give you enough credit. I treated you like crap!! I have been a horrible mommy :'(😭. But if you give me a chance, I’ll lift you out of the rubble left from the hurricane I inflicted on you. In my defense, I was so insecure. I felt wrong, like I was supposed to be something else & I was just trying to figure out what that was. Now I am realizing that what other people want me to be is a million different irrelevant things that I need to ignore, and focus on who I want to become. My time & focus will be invested on me. Improving myself becoming a better person physically and mentally.
#lovemyself
cool. we do treat ourselves badly but when we’re young, we’re a work in progress; when we get older, smugness is our greatest enemy and when we get old, like, unfortunately, me, we spend our time trying to hold ourselves together, wondering where the time, our glasses and possibly, our left slipper, has gone.
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your write we treat ourselves like crap and ask too much that was a really motivating post
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Thank you so much 😊
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oh sorry i meant right
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Gotcha 😊😉
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Felt like I need to say the same to myself. 😐 Great post! 🙂
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Thank you 😊 love yourself girl ☺
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Yep! 🙂
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A nice one. 👌 Also I as a newbie would just ask you to read my blog too and give valuable comments. https://187puneet.wordpress.com/2016/06/12/lifeless-writer/
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Thank u. N yepp sure!
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Brilliant thoughts.. the fact that you love yourself before you can love anyone stands absolutely true for all of us isn’t it.
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Yepp! N thanx a lot! 😊
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Thats so true love this post and the person that wrote it ☺️
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Thank you thank you 😂😘😙
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Nice post! I think we should all have this little talk with ourselves!
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I totally get this feeling: “I felt wrong, like I was supposed to be something else & I was just trying to figure out what that was.”
It can be painful to figure out who you are, but it’s worth it.
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Exactly! ☺
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Very thoughtful and insightful post. A little soul searching can go a long way… Stay blessed! 🙂
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Thanx a lot ☺
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As they say, Even when you FALL DOWN love yourself. Because humans have a tendency to only help the ones they love! You’ll pick yourself up because you don’t just love yourself, you love your mistakes! And only mistakes show that you’re trying. 🙂
I dig your work! 😁
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😁😀 thanx for that!! ✌
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By the way..nobody said it. I just find it common that people find things appealing when you start with “As they say”😂
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Haha yeah, when you say “as they say” it feels like it’s a great quote or a saying 😂😆
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Beautiful
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Thank you so much ☺
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awesomeness is when you love yourself!! So delighted to read this ‘Self Love’ realisation!
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Thank u
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